Lo mxholo ulandelayo uguqulelwa kumthombo wamaTshayina ngoguqulelo lwamatshini ngaphandle kokuhlelwa kweposi.
Eli nqaku liza kuthetha ngezinto ze-chineting zaseTshayina kunye nesiNgesi: Indlela yonxibelelwano lwenkcubeko. Okokuqala, ecacisa ukubaluleka kunye nezakhono zonxibelelwano zenkcubeko ezivela kwiinkalo ezine: imvelaphi yenkcubeko, unxibelelwano lolwimi, unxibelelwano olungeyongozi, kunye nokungqubana kwenkcubeko. Emva koko cacisa kumxholo othile wecandelo ngalinye ngeziqendu ezininzi zendalo, kubandakanya nokuqonda ukungaboni ngasonye inkcubeko, izakhono zonxibelelwano zolwimi, ukubaluleka kokunxibelelana nokungenela inkcubeko. Emva koko, ngokushwankathela umxholo weli nqaku, ukubaluleka konxibelelwano lwenkcubeko kuluntu lwanamhlanje lugxininiswa.
1. Imvelaphi yeNkcubeko
Imvelaphi yenkcubeko yinto ebalulekileyo kunxibelelwano lwenkcubeko, njengoko imvelaphi yenkcubeko eyahlukeneyo inokuchaphazela iinqobo zokuziphatha zabantu, iipateni zokuziphatha kunye neendlela zonxibelelwano. Ukwenzela ukubandakanyeka kunxibelelwano lwenkcubeko enqamlezileyo, kunyanzelekile ukuba uqonde imvelaphi yenkcubeko yelinye iqela, intlonipho kwaye unyamekele umahluko phakathi kweenkcubeko ezahlukeneyo.
Xa usenza unxibelelwano lwenkcubeko olunqamlezileyo, kunyanzelekile ukuba wazi ukuba ubani unesifo senkcubeko kwaye uzame ukwamkela kwaye uqonde imvelaphi yenkcubeko yomnye umntu. Ngokufunda kunye nokuhlangabezana neenkcubeko ezahlukeneyo, umntu unokudibanisa imeko yenkcubeko-enqamlezileyo aze akuphephe ukungaqondani kunye neengxabano ezibangelwa ngumahluko wenkcubeko.
Kwangelo xesha, kunxibelelwano lwenkcubeko enqamlezweni, kubalulekile ukunqanda ukugweba inkcubeko yabanye kwaye ihlale inesimo sengqondo esivulekileyo nehloniphayo ukuze simisele unxibelelwano kunye nokuqonda.
2. Unxibelelwano lolwimi
Ulwimi sisixhobo esibalulekileyo sokunxibelelana ngenkcubeko, kodwa kusenokubakho umahluko obonakalayo kulwimi olusetyenziswa ziinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo, ezinokukhokelela ngokulula kwizithintelo zonxibelelwano. Ke ngoko, xa usenza unxibelelwano lwenkcubeko olunqamlezileyo, kubalulekile ukuba unikele ingqalelo ekukhetheni ulwimi, iindlela zokuchaza, kunye nezakhono zonxibelelwano.
Ukuphucula ukusebenza konxibelelwano lwenkcubeko enqamlezileyo, umntu unokukhetha ukusebenzisa amabinzana alula kunye nolwimi olucacileyo, ukuphepha ukusetyenziswa kwesigama kunye nezakhiwo zesivakalisi. Kwangelo xesha, ngokufunda ulwimi lomnye umntu kunye nokusetyenziswa okuqhelekileyo, umntu unokuyiqonda ngcono kwaye aveze intsingiselo yawo.
Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuba unikele ingqalelo kwimbeko kunye nokuhlonipha unxibelelwano lolwimi, kuphephe ukusebenzisa ulwimi olukhubekileyo okanye olunocalucalulo, kwaye wenze imeko yonxibelelwano elungileyo nehambelana nayo.
I-3. Unxibelelwano lwe-noververbal
Ukongeza kunxibelelwano ngomlomo, unxibelelwano olungekalonline lukwayinto ebalulekileyo yoNxibelelwano lweNkcubeko. Unxibelelwano lomlomo lubandakanya ulwimi lomzimba, imbonakalo yobuso, ukunxibelelana kwamehlo, njl njl., Enokudlulisela ulwazi.
Ukunxibelelana ngenkcubeko, kubalulekile ukuxabisa iindlela zokunxibelelana ezingeyongozi, nikela ingqalelo kwelinye ulwimi lomzimba kunye nembonakalo yobuso, kwaye ufumane ulwazi oluthe kratya kubo. Kwangelo xesha, umntu kufuneka anikele ingqalelo kulwimi lwabo lomzimba kunye nentetho, ukugcina isimo sengqondo esivulekileyo nesinobuhlobo.
Ngokujonga ngononophelo kunye namava, umntu anokuyiqonda ngcono imikhwa kunye neempawu zokunxibelelana nokungahoyi kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo, kwaye uphephe ukungaqondi kunye neengxabano ezibangelwa ziindlela zonxibelelwano.
4. Ingxabano yenkcubeko
Unxibelelwano lwenkcubeko olunqamlezileyo, iingxabano kunye nokungaqondani okubangelwa kukwahluka kwenkcubeko kuhlala kudibana. Isitshixo sokusombulula ukungaboni ngasonye kwinkcubeko-yenkcubeko kuxhomekeke, ukunyamezelana kunye nokuqonda. Omabini amaqela kufuneka azole kwaye anyamezele, efuna umhlaba oqhelekileyo kunye nezisombululo.
Xa ujongene neengxabano zenkcubeko, unxibelelwano, uthethathethwano, kunye nokulalanisa kunokwamkelwa, kwaye unobundlobongela okanye ungquzulwano okanye ukungqubana kwembambano kufuneka kuthintelwe kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ngokumamela kunye nokuqonda kunye neemfuno zabo kunye neemfuno zabo, iimbambano zenkcubeko ezinqamlezileyo zinokusonjululwa kwaye ubudlelwane obungcono bunokusekwa.
Kubalulekile ukugcina i-pingset evulekileyo kwaye ihlonipha umahluko wenkcubeko yabanye, rhoqo kwaye iphucule kwaye iphucule izakhono zonxibelelwano zenkcubeko, ukwenzela ukuba kube ngcono kwimo yenkcubeko yoluntu.
Unxibelelwano lwenkcubeko olunqamlezileyo lubaluleke kakhulu kubudala bedijithali yanamhlanje, ifuna ukuba iqwalaselwe kwizakhono kwimvelaphi yenkcubeko, unxibelelwano lolwimi, unxibelelwano olungeyongozi, kunye neengxabano zenkcubeko. Ngokufunda kunye nokuziqhelanisa, sinokuziqhelanisa nokudityaniswa kweemeko ezahlukeneyo zenkcubeko, kunye nokuseka ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo benkcubeko.
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